[Clara Lou]

No. I was never given the luxury.
I wasn't challenging you. I simply wanted to know your perspective. BTW, the above is a questionable choice of words, don't you think?

[RightOnline]

Questionable? No. Will everyone agree with that choice of words? No. Does it apply to everyone? No.

As I said, am I totally convinced that there are those who allow themselves to wallow in depression........because either they can, or think they can?

ABsoLUTEly.