So the questionable action of one man now condemns our entire military and its leaders. Okay, now I know where you stand. You are simply anti-military and would seemingly like to see it dismantled.
That is what we are taught to do, that is how we win wars.
You win wars by being tougher, smarter, kill more of the enemy than they do you and by destroying their ability to fight. Not by engaging them in discussions and handling them as if they were your own citizens. They are trying to kill us and whatever means we can use we should to stop them from that goal.