Gays are not trying to "gain" civil rights, they are trying to stop others from violating them.
You on the other hand, are arguing in favor of limiting civil rights based on that very same sexual orientation that you claim not to believe in!
They are trying to create a right to marry. You and I were discussing that, remember?
Do you normally have this kind of trouble remembering the thread of a conversation? The good news is that on FR you can go back and review.
Gays have all the right they want to engage in whatever sexual perversion they want to in the privacy of their own home.
I have the right to refuse to associate with them on the basis of that behavior. I also have the right to refuse to call their perversion normal. They have no more "right" to be gay than I have a "right" to be a "homophobe". Also no less.
Shalom.