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How legalizing gay marriage undermines society's morals
The Christian Science Monitor ^ | December 09, 2003 | Alan Charles Raul

Posted on 12/08/2003 7:12:17 PM PST by Kay Soze

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To: NutCrackerBoy
I don't agree with anyone every time on any issue, conversely, I don't disagree with anyone on every issue every time.

Do you?
361 posted on 12/11/2003 7:23:36 PM PST by Luis Gonzalez (The Gift Is To See The Trout.)
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To: Unassuaged
Anywhere a civil union conforms to the biologically natural design of male-female...they are morally superior to homosexual unions.

The fact that not all heterosexual marriages are perfect doesn't make gay marriage anymore acceptable.

362 posted on 12/11/2003 7:35:44 PM PST by Jorge
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To: Luis Gonzalez
I don't agree with anyone every time on any issue, conversely, I don't disagree with anyone on every issue every time.

Do you?

In a word, yes. There are some columnists I seem to agree with every time, and others I disagree with every time. Maybe my critical thinking is not where it should be.

Like I said, I didn't really mean anything by posting a second Ellen Goodman. But the one you posted I thought was pure poison.

363 posted on 12/11/2003 8:40:56 PM PST by NutCrackerBoy
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To: NutCrackerBoy
"But the one you posted I thought was pure poison."

Interesting choice of words, that article mostly concerned itself with historical facts, vis a vis the progress of Court decisions regarding traditional marriage.

I detest people who make statements like yours without bothering to actually debate the points made...it's so Clintonian.

364 posted on 12/11/2003 9:15:06 PM PST by Luis Gonzalez (The Gift Is To See The Trout.)
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To: Luis Gonzalez
You were the one who posted the Ellen Goodman column with no commentary, no indication what your point was in doing so; no words of agreement or disagreement. Did it bear directly on what we were discussing at the time? Give me a hint.

I will be glad to expand on why I thought it was pure poison.

365 posted on 12/11/2003 10:36:36 PM PST by NutCrackerBoy
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To: NutCrackerBoy
"I will be glad to expand on why I thought it was pure poison."

And you're waiting for what exactly?

"Expand" away!

366 posted on 12/11/2003 11:04:46 PM PST by Luis Gonzalez (The Gift Is To See The Trout.)
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To: Luis Gonzalez; breakem; Torie; jwalsh07; mcg1969; panther33
The evolution of gay rights and marriage laws now merge into the definition of marriage written by the Massachusetts court: "We construe civil marriage to mean the voluntary union of two persons as spouses, to the exclusion of all others." -Ellen Goodman.

Ellen, it is not the job of four people with robes to write the definition of marriage. What the heck qualifies these judges for that task? The definition was already unambiguously written into the law, to interpret which is their primary task.

EG's column uses the same sophistry as Marshall's majority opinion. She accepts and promotes the Marxist claptrap that it is the redistribution of wealth that gives individuals their choices. Since any moral disapproval by We the People is repudiated as mere prejudice, law must now be drained of our judgments, so that coercion of virtue becomes the province of judges.

Her column claims to trace two paths, gay rights, and the definition of marriage. She tries to paint them as converging. But she gives short shrift to gay rights, citing only the sodomy law decision. If the only problem for gays were those silly laws that were virtually never enforced, it sure doesn't look much like the struggle that African-Americans had to endure to get civil rights.

No, but the implication is that the inability to get marriage benefits is equated with Jim Crow.

But she uses the most intellectual dishonesty on the other path: describing an illusory "evolution" of civil marriage. In fact, civil marriage has not changed in definition, purpose, or in its main legal structures. She listed only decriminalizations of certain behaviors and changes in divorce law, as if these refinements were redefining what marriage is all about.

To peddle the lie that marriage is rightfully about the satisfaction of adults and not the begetting and raising of children in stable families embraces the rot which is slowly destroying Western Europe. I refer to the triumph of secular humanism and the concomitant marginalization of the Judeo-Christian tradition. Pure poison.

367 posted on 12/13/2003 2:42:27 PM PST by NutCrackerBoy
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To: NutCrackerBoy
Well, the problems of Europe are about low birth rates primarily (actually putting that aside, Western Europe is by and large one of the most agreeable places to live on this planet), and the lowest birth rates are not in places where "secular humanism" (and certainly not gay marriages) has raised its ugly head in your parlance. The lowest birth rates are in Slavic countries by and large. Your cause and effect analysis really lacks much empirical traction. The suggestion that gay marriage will end civilization as we know it is just that - a suggestion.
368 posted on 12/13/2003 2:58:32 PM PST by Torie
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To: NutCrackerBoy
The Copurt's finding does not change in any way the definition of marriage, it expands it.

You seem to be stuck in place by your inability to separate the definition of marriage from the governmental restrictions on licensing.

Marriage means the same in Massachuttes today, than it did before the Court's ruling; the State was found to be in violation of their own Constitution when they refuse to issue some couples marriage licenses based on a State-sponsored dissapproval of their choice of partner via the gender make up of the couple in question, thus creating a second-class citizen.

"To peddle the lie that marriage is rightfully about the satisfaction of adults and not the begetting and raising of children in stable families embraces the rot which is slowly destroying Western Europe."

No one required me to sign a contract forcing my wife and I to have children prior to being issued a marriage license, and stability is exactly what the likely end-result of same-sex couples marrying will bring about.

"But she uses the most intellectual dishonesty on the other path: describing an illusory "evolution" of civil marriage. In fact, civil marriage has not changed in definition, purpose, or in its main legal structures."

You want claptrap?

There's pure, unadulterated claptrap.

We have seen marriage go from a time when a woman was not allowed to charge a husband with rape because marriage took away her rights as an individual to say "no", where couples could not buy birth control, where blacks and whites could not marry, and right into no-fault divorce.

If those things did not change the definition of marriage, neither did this.

369 posted on 12/13/2003 3:00:03 PM PST by Luis Gonzalez (The Gift Is To See The Trout.)
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To: Luis Gonzalez
Luis, I think when folks speak about marriage and the laws pertaining to it, in the public square, they mean marriage licenses, to which attend a package of rights and duties. They do not mean "marriage" in a spiritual or religious sense. So to suggest otherwise, is to deflect the debate a bit.

One interesting think about the Mass situation, is whether the law will trigger social security survivor benefits for gay marrieds, and whether if it is called "civil unions," and the Mass Supremes allow that, it will not. There is quite a bit of state money potentially riding on, well, terminology.

370 posted on 12/13/2003 3:06:58 PM PST by Torie
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To: Torie
The suggestion that gay marriage will end civilization as we know it is just that - a suggestion.

And I absolutely did not suggest that.

In my last paragraph I did make some unsubstantiated and really unexplained claims. The intent of my post was to critique the Ellen Goodman column.

The fruits of secular humanism in Western Europe are: the low birth rate you mentioned; also declining militaries; also increased dependence on socialistic government; also a burgeoning hostile Islamic population. The deaths of those old folks in France were a signpost. It is no longer the family's job to take care of the elderly and infirm; that instead falls to the government.

371 posted on 12/13/2003 3:34:46 PM PST by NutCrackerBoy
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To: Luis Gonzalez
Chapter 3, Article V.

All causes of marriage, divorce, and alimony, and all appeals from the judges of probate shall be heard and determined by the governor and council, until the legislature shall, by law, make other provision.

This is what the Massachusetts Constitution says Luis. But to judicial activists, the words contained in constitutions are meaningless as witnessed by the majority opinion in McConnell V FEC.

372 posted on 12/13/2003 3:52:07 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: Torie
The suggestion that gay marriage will end civilization as we know it is just that - a suggestion.

It won't end civilization but it will end the institution of marriage as we know it. Whether or not that will have an effect on civilization is for each of us to decide. I, of course, have decided it will have a profoundly negative effect and thus I will oppose any redefining of the word.

373 posted on 12/13/2003 3:55:15 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: jwalsh07
My side appears to be kicking butt via usurpative and reckless judicial self indulgence regarding promulgating their own aesthetic and moral preferences. I don't like it any more than you do. I want to win in the public square. I want my win to not be tainted. I guess I want a lot.

The upside I guess is that I will get to see the dire predictions of the downside of it all, refuted in my lifetime. And when we are both collecting social security, I can say, see I told you so John.

And we can chat about whether the two remaining justices on the otherwise vacant SCOTUS bench (Thomas and Breyer), will deadlock yet again.

And there you have it. :)

374 posted on 12/13/2003 4:01:45 PM PST by Torie
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To: Luis Gonzalez
In my world, if I welcome Judicial activism when it suits my agenda, then I am required to equally welcome it when it doesn't, because to do otherwise, in mine or anyone's world, would amount to nothing less than monumental hypocrisy

After catching up on this thread I can see that my previous post to you has no meaning.

I would point out to you Luis that judicial activism moved us from the right to privacy to murdering babies who are almost totally outside the womb and ready and able to breathe on their own.

The problem with judicial activism Luis is that the law is what 5 people say it is in direct contravention to what this nation should and did stand for.

Supporting judicial activism and supporting the rule of law are incompatible notions as witnessed by thirty years of sliding down the slope from "first trimester" abortion to killing them on the way out.

Rights are self evident, for example the right to life, the right to property and the right to travel as one sees fit in this nation.

Questions of liberty can get a little bit stickier. While one has the right to certain behaviors in the privacy of ones home, engaging in the same behavior in the public park is not a right, it's a question of liberty that is best decided by all those who pay for the park. At the same time the same persons have the right to life, property and travel whether or not they are in a public park.

375 posted on 12/13/2003 5:05:22 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: Torie
The upside I guess is that I will get to see the dire predictions of the downside of it all, refuted in my lifetime

My sisters used to tell me the same thing about abortion my friend. They have since acknowledged that I was right.

376 posted on 12/13/2003 5:06:59 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: jwalsh07
Ya, but I saw the downside legacy of Roe v Wade the moment it was decided, and when Casey came down, knew that the winds would never blow that noisome fart out of the public square. You see, I don't see abortion (particularly third trimester) as equaling gay marriage as equaling polygamous marriage, all wrapped up in one Pandora's box. I don't see killing a semi sentient fetus for convenience as quite the same as what two consensual adults want as far as sealing their rights and duties to each other. And I suspect you don't either. You put them in varying rings of Dante's hell, and I put one outside the ring. Of course, from a jurisprudential standpoint, all are in the innermost ring to the extent SCOTUS chooses to go there.
377 posted on 12/13/2003 5:18:06 PM PST by Torie
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To: Luis Gonzalez
The Court's finding does not change in any way the definition of marriage, it expands it.

Your statement is flat false.

Did you read the exact words of Ellen Goodman's column? She said the SJC wrote the definition of marriage.. In the Massachusetts Constitution it is defined as a union of a man and a woman.

The State was found to be in violation of their own Constitution when they refuse to issue some couples marriage licenses based on a State-sponsored dissapproval of their choice of partner via the gender make up of the couple in question, thus creating a second-class citizen.

Your statement is correct.

However, the dissents seem to be much more convincing than the majority opinion.

No one required me to sign a contract forcing my wife and I to have children prior to being issued a marriage license.

Right, but here I am talking about what marriage is all about in the general sense. Can you honestly ponder life in Western Civilization over generations and not see the purpose of marriage as being about children and families and generations?,If not, I do not know what planet you are living on.

Stability is exactly what the likely end-result of same-sex couples marrying will bring about.

I am in favor of better stability for same-sex couples. That stability, if it does come about, will be good for the people among us who are gay. A little tweaking of existing civil contract law may do the trick.

Looked at that way, the issues of gay couples do not seem to have much impact on stability of the American family. It is only when these issues impact marriage law that I get concerned.

378 posted on 12/13/2003 6:11:38 PM PST by NutCrackerBoy
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To: Torie
You see, I don't see abortion (particularly third trimester) as equaling gay marriage as equaling polygamous marriage, all wrapped up in one Pandora's box. I don't see killing a semi sentient fetus for convenience as quite the same as what two consensual adults want as far as sealing their rights and duties to each other.

Neither do I.

But I can look at history and from what I have learned on my own and with yours and others help here at FR, it is plain to me that the natural progression of SCOTUS precedents is the liberalization of those precedents.

Roe took us to PBA in the last trimester. Engel v Vitale morphed into a ban on voluntary prayer before football games. I could go on but the point is quite simple. The history of 20th century jurisprudence is an activist court moving toward an ever more socially liberal USA and quite like you, I see nothing on the horizon to stop them.

The institution of marriage is on its way out unless the Massachusetts SJC is stopped and if I live long enough, I'll be able to point to all the new laws required to handle the new "marriage" paradigm as evidence of my thesis.

379 posted on 12/13/2003 8:05:57 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: jwalsh07
"The history of 20th century jurisprudence is an activist court moving toward an ever more socially liberal USA."

Bullsh%t.

The Court does not lead society, it follows it, simply acknowledging what direction society has already taken.

To use the example of Roe v. Wade, the Court's decision would be utterly meaningless, if societal acceptance of sex outside of marriage was not the norm, and if we as a society had no brought the challenge up to them. The belief that abortion was a woman's right was not created in the vacuum that is the SCOTUS, the argument was brought to them.

You, on the other hand, believe in a form of Judicial activism that would set up the Court as a social engineer, and use the unwillingness of the Congress or State Houses to address sensitive issues directly out of fear of the reaction of the majority voters, to prolong what in many clear cases is an inequity in our laws.

Individuals, who feel that their civil privileges and rights are being violated, and without a voice in our government, and a way to move toward challenging these laws because of the nature of being a minority within the society, need the Courts to hear their arguments, and examine how laws impact the individual.

In Texas, there was not a chance in Hell that the legislature was going to "fix" a bad law, and it was a bad law in spite of whatever you believe.

Now, we LOVE Judicial activism when it suits our purposes, or at least we certainly did in Bush v. Gore, when Rehnquist, Scalia, and Thomas, after spending years fighting the liberal expansion of the equal protection clause, used it to stop the recounts.

Was it activism?

Only if you are a lefty.

380 posted on 12/13/2003 8:59:26 PM PST by Luis Gonzalez (The Gift Is To See The Trout.)
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