[alloysteel]

Can't we all just get along?

Of course, NOBODY saw this one coming. Essentially, we have children who find the most important people in their lives, scrapping like two strange cats over turf that few outsiders would understand. It is not clear that the participants understand the issues, or have even defined them. What attracted these two people to each other in the first place, and could they get it back? Even if they cannot, civility should not be that hard to adopt as a means of dialogue.

Unstable children grow up to be unstable adults. Break the cycle. Provide the children with stability, even if it is unattainable in your own existence.

[Libloather]

Essentially, we have children who find the most important people in their lives, scrapping like two strange cats...

The sperm donor makes three...