[XJarhead]

Generally, the dividing line is whether you're screwing around with the spouse of another servicemember, and whether the other servicemember makes a big deal out of it. That's the kind of stuff that affect good order and discipline.

I personally know of at least one high-ranking officer whose was nailed for this. They just don't publish that stuff, which is why some folks may think they get away with it.

[Stopislamnow]

I do know what does get published. Heheh.

A single guy in my barracks had quite the collection of porn.
Included were some swinging magazines with ads.

Anyway he comes to our floor one afternoon with a swingers mag.
We were quite shocked to recognize a picture of the CO's wife on his truck, in the buff, and the ad was hilarious. Turned out that the wives of 10 junior officers, including our platoon leader were in the magazine for that month. They would have huge parties in Austin on weekends. Or at each others houses on post.

I don't think anything official ever came down.

No one really cared, but we did think it was funny as hell. Those pics kept popping up in the darnedest places.