What gays are really after is entitlements granted to marriage spouses. In short they are after free money, out of straight pockets.
Perhaps pointing this out will put the gays on the defensive. You could offer to let them stipulate that they would refuse these benefits to prove their interest is only in religeous marriage. They would refuse, squalling "it's not faaaaiiir" proving your point.
Simple -- the guvmint needs to get out of the "entitlements" business.
wot is ur problem there is nothing wong with gay people they r the same as u and me! u cnt help who u fall in love with and if they want 2 get married let them it is nothing to do with you if there happy its all tht matters!!!!!