So then, just what is "gay marriage" if it is not about behavior?
They required proof that we live together and share financial interests. I also showed them copies of our wills. They didn't even ask about sexual activity.
So you're telling me that "gay marriage" is not about a claimed sexual orientation or activity.
All that is required to present documents showing a domestic partnership; not behavior.
So anyone can present a will, joint bank account and proof of address and qualify for "gay" status without verification of homosexual behavior.
So the two guys in my example in post 61 would qualify!
But they aren't homosexual!