Comments like these .... "so-called "defenders of marriage" are not addressing the hard problem" ... are unfair.
I'll stick by my comment. There are those who are fighting to change divorce laws, but they are mostly different from the people fighting gay marriage under the banner of "defense of marriage."
So what are *you* doing to address 'the hard problem' if you say it is so key??
I'm bringing up the topic every chance I get. And thanks for the work you're doing, whatever that may be.