That is pure spin. She agreed to meet him privately... she was just not ready for the huge public event that would have been So she couldn't give up 10 minutes to shake his hand and have a picture taken while he is in her hometown.
JMO, but Jessica should get off on the next exit of the Babs Streisand diva road she seems to be on.
And you think it would have been a 10 minute event with little stress. Do you know what the media looks like when they descend on a house for such an event? How many cameras? How many trucks? How many flash bulbs? You really believe this event would ramain small?