A grateful female would THANK HIM! A *itch would not.
What a thoughtful post! Thank you for giving the matter such contemplation before rendering your valuable comments.
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This young lady suffers atrocities at the hands of depraved Iraqis and all you can do is question her declining to meet this man for a quickie photo op? And call her a "itch? You can't understand why she may not want to see another Iraqi at this time? What type of human being are you?