There is absolutely no reason to put women in or near combat.
Because of the hardwired male response to women (not culture specific) and the physical charateristics of women, not to mention the relaxed physical standards to which they are held, I can't buy that an entirely voluntary force toploaded with women would be more efficient, save more lives, and win more wars with less casualties.
A "button pusher" in line for contact with the enemy calls into play the three considerations above, albeit less frequent than active front line work.
There have been incidents in each conflict, in which women were used in active confrontation, where they were captured and raped, or otherwise savaged. Articles on that topic were posted here on FR during the conflicts when such cases came to light. The statement of only one such incident in 12 years, besides being the span between the first Gulf war and this one, fails.
There have been also articles posted here during these conflicts where women were discharged for reason of pregnancy. This doesn't not happen with men.
List the reasons against women serving in capacities that bring into contact with the enemy in one column and those for in another. See which is longer.
Using women in harm's way in armed conflict is not a conservative concept; it is a liberal concept. It has been tried before in other places and abandoned.
But thank you for posting your beliefs on FR. Liberal concepts can't be refuted unless there is a dialog.