[bondserv]

That's all I wish to know, is their behavior defensible, and are you defending it?

I don't discuss person's behind their back.

1 Tim 5:13
13 Besides, they get into the habit of being idle and going about from house to house. And not only do they become idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things they ought not to.

[Ogmios]

I am not asking you to talk about anyone behind their back, I am asking you if you are defending thier behavior.

I am asking about you, not them, this has nothing to do with them, and everything to do with you.

Now, are you, or are you not defending their behavior?