[drjulie]

"Is it common for narcissists as compared with the general population to have the ability to conceal rage and hostility? I understand the "acting ability" that they have I just don't understand the concealing of STRONG emotions. The reason I keep plugging this point is bc I found it hard to believe that there were not some cracks visible to Laci in her marriage."

When narcissists experience rage it is usually because of criticism or frustration. Not all narcissists experience rage, however, some react with cold indifference while others become depressed. Assuming Scott is a narcissist, he could have experienced frustration with his situation and reacted with indifference. Since there have been no reports (to my knowledge) of him "throwing fits" throughout his life he may be one who becomes indifferent and simply makes a decision to get rid of his wife. You ask an interesting question as to what Laci may have noticed with regard to Scott's behavior. We'll probably never know the answer but my guess is that she wasn't consciously aware of what was going on in his head. If he was acting "a bit unusual" she may have attributed it to the major changes occurring in their lives.

[Canadian Outrage]

Julie you know the one thing that will bug me forever about this case? It is wondering if Snott has killed before. The incredible detachment he showed from the first night, has always haunted me throughout this case. It certainly underscores the fact that he at least is NOT capable of feeling normal emotions such as guilt, remorse, fear, self-disgust. Nothing. Just wipe hands and walk on!! I think this very thing has bamboozled some people because they can't imagine how anyone could act so normal after such a dramatic incident.!! He didn't even show that he missed her being gone.????