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she should be kind enough to show the same respect in return. It is called common courtesy.

And where does she state that she isn't going to meet with him?

"And where does she state that she isn't going to meet with him?..."

It doesn't, but that is not the point. It is assumed he was hoping to see her. It may not have been convenient for her, it may not of made her comfortable, but that is no excuse. Regardless of her feelings, he was there to see her and she declined to do so.

Sometimes one acquiesces to another's wishes out of respect and due honor for what they have done for you. It is called courtesy, it is called respect, it demonstrates character and appreciation. It is what we hope to instill in our children; it is what we hope we may find in ourselves.

If she had the chance to meet with him and chose not to do so because of her own desires, she showed him no respect and honor. What is so hard to understand?

Again, this is all based upon the assumption she had the opportunity and declined to do so due to trival reasons.