[ruoflaw]

I agree, they can't deal with it so they think it is better to put the person out "their misery" so they won't have to think about it anymore. They think Terri is weak minded but she puts them to shame

[najida]

Look,

I see it all the time. Family members come to visit their loved one. There are the angels who lavish love and care on the person, no matter what state they are in. (Like I said, caring for these folks is the true teller of who YOU are.)

And there is the one who stands back in the corner with this pinched, angry look on their face, as if they are wanting to be anywhere else in the world.

No, not out of grief or hurt, but because they are so terribly offended. Something very primal and ugly is taking place in their minds. Sorta like animals who tear apart the injured or weak of the pack.