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"what bothers me more is men trying to make rape somehow a crime against them"

An actual rape is a horrific crime against women. A false accusation of rape is a horrific crime against men. They are two totally different issues.

Of course rape is absolutely horrific. But what you're missing is that if a woman is raped, she'll have the entire force of government and society on her side to shelter her and bring her justice. If a man is falsely accused of rape, the entire force of government and society will come down -against him-, and he has not one single legal remedy. Even if it's proven that she maliciously lied, he cannot sue her, he cannot get back the money he spent defending himself, his reputation is destroyed, if he's married his wife has probably left him by this stage, he's probably been fired, and he'll live the rest of his life with feminists claiming that his acquittal was just the product of the male-dominated society letting men go free.

I've seen what happens to men falsely accused of rape. You say rape is far more horrific - and if you're talking about sheer numbers, you're probably correct. But if you're talking about the amount of devastation it wreaks on an individual, I'm not so sure about that. There are many women who claim that the indignity they had to suffer while answering testimony in court was worse than the rape itself, and they're the ones pressing the charges. By those women's testimony, being prosecuted and grilled in public for false and unfair charges is in fact worse than rape.

I'd point out what men have said of the total destruction that our one-sided laws have brought upon them, but I know that what men say won't bring any sympathy, so I have to phrase it in terms of what women say.

Qwinn

I'd point out what men have said of the total destruction that our one-sided laws have brought upon them,

I've been asked many times about what men can do to try to protect themselves in this crazy environment. In order to help them, I've devised a series of steps that each young man should commit to memory:

Step 1 - Marry her first! I'm indebted to Dr. Laura for this one - just refuse to have sex with women before marriage. Many of the most aggressive women will be deterred if you just let them know of this rule right up front.

Step 2 - Only date women who are trustworthy! By now, you should be able to separate the women you can trust from those you can't. Don't be a slut. Don't date untrustworthy women.

Step 3 - Deuteronomy readings! Most of you probably carry a Bible with you or at least keep one in a convenient place. If you have perhaps misjudged a woman (notwithstanding your strictest efforts to comply with Step 2) and she becomes sexually aggressive on a date, ask her to read aloud to you from pertinent portions of the Bible. (Hint: Deuteronomy has some great stuff!) I assure you, this request alone will deter all but a few of the females who are most difficult to control. And, if that doesn't work, go to

Step 4 - Insist on videotaping your sex! This is the Rubicon, guys - not many women will cross this line! You just tell the young lady that you will not engage in any sexual activities that aren't fully videotaped for your protection.

I can hear some of you now. What, you ask, should you do if you happen to find yourself involved with a woman who insists on having sex with you while reading passages from Deuteronomy and being videotaped? That's the beauty of this program, guys - you just go right back to Step 1 and marry the girl.

She's what you've been looking for all along!