I'm not going to speak about this Hospice Nursing home that Terry is in
But Hospice in general is not a bad thing for terminally ill patients
They help not only the patient but also the the family in preparing for what is to happen
Years ago my mother volunteered for a Hospice program around my way to help several dying people and their families through the process .. whether it be picking up their meds .. picking up some food .. or just sitting there to listen to them and offer a hand to hold
She did it because when my father was dying of cancer, there were no support groups or anything close to a Hospice care and she knew how hard it was and how alone people feel.
I don't know how she did it all .. but a few families were helped by her