The fact that you took up with another woman while your wife was still alive and needing your care betrays anything you say here.
"In good times and bad" aren't just words.
Or, maybe they are, to you.
I can't hear you; your actions are louder than your words.
Ok, so he gave up on her 6 years ago? A year after he moved in with another woman. Good thing Terri didn't come back in that one year time span.