I don't think I ever said she got what she deserved. That is the argument to stop the discussion that there are consequences to conduct.
No woman (or child or boy for that matter) deserves to be raped. It's a horrible crime. And a crime it is. And it should be severely punished.
But in a generic sense, I wish we would find some common sense and dignity in our behavior. Being taught that you can just say no is crazy. Yes, women have the right to say no, but changing her mind midstream and then charging rape is not right.
When it becomes a he said, she said situation, the defendant should have every right to defend himself.