I can imagine few things worse than watching a beloved wife go through such a thing for 13 yrs.I haven't read of Terry in agony. Ups and downs, but no great physical pain, and no terminal disease.
Delights in seeing her parents, smiles, and other normal emotional states.
Though, I too haven't read much about her.
Just recently got caught up on this case. I just saw the videos of her on her web site. Seeing her makes you draw back in distaste because she cannot speak clearly and makes gutteral sounds. It is uncomfortable. But it is not she who is uncomfortable; it is us.
It seems to me that people calling for her death and knowing what she is capable of would say that parents should be able to stop feeding their children with cerebral palsey. Now that's distasteful.