2,000 years of oppression has made Jews wary. The Democrats have been very good at exploiting that wariness. I can’t seem to get it through the thick skulls of my stiff-necked fellow Jews that modern America is different, and why it is different.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with Jews being wary. Being wary does not necessarily require support for "gay rights." In fact, the in-your-face identification of Judaism with moral depravity is no way for a wary person to act.