What in the world is the matter with me?

[Jon Geb]

Ok I live by Seattle. Seattle is liberal nightmare place in case you dont know.

[i]I do a personality search and only look for "conservitive" women. Guess how many I fine.

9 in all Only nine women.

Wha hahaha hahah

Its going to be lonely for a few months or posibly years. Or maybe I need to move.[/I]

Do that search for liberal and I bet maybe 10 will pop up. DO that same search for "Not interested in politics" and I bet 400 will pop up. Most 20 year old girls are more interested in Joe Millioniare then they would be if China was invading the mainland of the U.S.

[Jon Geb]

Why is there no edit button on FR?

[Jon Geb]

Unless you're going to a Bible college, the kind of women you meet in that environment by and large have skulls full of vaguely leftist neo-feminist mush Thats why I picked one with the mush and removed it. My girl is now a right wing conservative Republican.

[brbethke]

How? Electroshock? Aversion therapy? Liposuction nozzle up the nose? Or did you just make her do her own tax return?

[Jon Geb]

No it was easier then that. I simply explained the issues to her. That was all it took. Don't you know that most liberal college students know just about nothing about life? They do what they are told. The college feeds them venom, they regurgitate it.

[A Vast RightWing Conspirator]

I know exactly what you must do.

Change your column to a 'sex talk' or, if it's a 'conservative' site, call it 'relationships' or something like that. Make sure you include your email address. One of the columns could be your own story - don't mention it's you, of course.

[A Vast RightWing Conspirator]

Oh, and make sure that you include your picture with the column.

[brbethke]

No it was easier then that. I simply explained the issues to her. That was all it took. Don't you know that most liberal college students know just about nothing about life? They do what they are told. The college feeds them venom, they regurgitate it...

...and the parents are billed $6K a semester for the sevice. With one daughter in college and another just graduated, OH BOY, do I know it!!!! My oldest daughter didn't start to regain sanity until she entered the workforce, started looking at her paycheck stubs, and finally understood how much of her income was going to subsidize other people's "lifestyle choices." My middle daughter is still in college and therefore doesn't get it. I was just hoping there was some way to accelerate the process.

[RockyTop4GOP]

Advice from a 21-year-old conservative college female--

It's funny but I just finished leading a Bible study on this subject from a girl's point of view, which completely changed my attitude towards the whole dating/marriage thing.

I've also gotta say, conservative girls are out there. I know, because most of my friends are conservative.

First of all, listen to some of these wisened Freepers that tell you not to worry. They know their stuff. If you are a Christian, God has a plan for you. As my mom says, when God brings you together with the person you're supposed to be with, nothing, absolutely nothing can keep you apart. Until then, God is simply preparing you for your future spouse as well as your future spouse for you.

Enjoy life! Relax! If you think in the long-run, and say you get married by the age of 30, you have 40-50 potential years of bills, kids, work, no money(I guess some things never change) and stress. This is the only time we're allowed to goof off and have fun. Adult life will hit us sooner than we want.

Don't knock parties! As a person with the dance talent of Elaine Benez, there's nothing better than groovin' with my sorority sisters.

If you have trouble at church, join a campus group. Reformed University Fellowship, a Calvinist group, is a great organization and are at campuses across the country.

However, don't join a church or religious group just to meet girls. You can always sense when the opposite sex is desperate. As hard as it is, just wait. Spend your time learning new hobbies, learn a new language or backpack across Europe. Just remember to enjoy life, and not worry about the future. :) Phil. 4:6-7. Sorry for the long read, but I had to add my two cents!

[MonroeDNA]

Ask the closest, non-relative woman you know,

"What am I doing wrong?"

Take her to lunch, make sure you have about 3 hours, and just ask.

It will be the toughest question you ever ask, but you will get honest advice. And just listen. Keep your mouth shut.

Asking for feedback by people who know you is the hardest thing in the world to do, but is the only way to grow fast.