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At what point in the relationship do girlfriends or wives start choosing their man's clothing?
Aug. 18, 2013 | Lee Martell

Posted on 08/18/2013 1:43:02 AM PDT by lee martell

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To: lee martell

As the late comedian Sam Kinston used to say ‘When she takes your di$k and won’t give it back’.


41 posted on 08/18/2013 3:51:57 AM PDT by duckman (I'm part of the group pulling the wagon!)
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To: lee martell

30 seconds before they hit the road.


42 posted on 08/18/2013 3:59:42 AM PDT by ComputerGuy (HM2/USN M/3/3 Marines RVN 66-67)
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To: lee martell

Women start learning how to manipulate Men by about... Age 4
The Boys have no idea what is going on, or what they are getting into

Choosing clothes can be graduated process
from noticing what one wears,
to internally criticizing,
to commenting on,
to suggesting,
to active engagement.


43 posted on 08/18/2013 4:06:37 AM PDT by HangnJudge
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To: lee martell

When she starts buying camo.


44 posted on 08/18/2013 4:08:57 AM PDT by riverrunner
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To: lee martell

I hate shopping for clothes so my wife buys most of my clothes. If I don’t like what she buys then I don’t wear it. It works for us.


45 posted on 08/18/2013 4:18:57 AM PDT by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: lee martell

Thst is just weird. I purchase various items of clothing as presents for my husband, but I am not in charge of his wardrobe!


46 posted on 08/18/2013 4:22:19 AM PDT by quilterdebbie (We will endeavor to persevere!)
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To: lee martell

I recall being a young manager and reading “Dress for Success.” In it, the author explain why a man should NEVER pick out his business attire. I never forgot it. And she never has.


47 posted on 08/18/2013 4:23:26 AM PDT by Vermont Lt (Does anybody really know what time it is? Does anybody really care?)
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To: lee martell

My wife is the one who looks at me most, so she has the biggest say in what she sees.


48 posted on 08/18/2013 4:25:45 AM PDT by ctdonath2 (Making good people helpless doesn't make bad people harmless.)
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To: Norm Lenhart

Thanks for the early morning laugh-out-loud...


49 posted on 08/18/2013 4:28:44 AM PDT by Mr_Peter (Proud to be a Republican in Hingham Massachusetts)
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To: KGeorge

Later


50 posted on 08/18/2013 4:29:28 AM PDT by leapfrog0202 ("the American presidency is not supposed to be a journey of personal discovery" Sarah Palin)
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To: Norm Lenhart

> This is a clear case of category error. You are trying to find a solution to the wrong problem. The correct question si...

“What is that woman doing in a clothing store instead of a kitchen?”

Now if it was a grocery store, well, that’s one thing but....

Can’t wait to hear from the ladie’s on this one...: )
(you are gonna be in so much trouble...lol)


51 posted on 08/18/2013 4:35:05 AM PDT by jsanders2001
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We ask each other for opinions and suggestions, but no one chooses for the other. We have fairly similar "tastes" in that we don't like sloppiness (shower shoes, sweats at the grocery store, old ratty clothes, ill-fit, etc.).

A gentleman I work with has his wife choose all of his clothes. It's mainly because he's too busy and scatterbrained to do it himself. If left to his own devices, I think he would wear the same clothes every day no matter how wrinkled or dirty. LOL

52 posted on 08/18/2013 4:35:43 AM PDT by grimalkin (The riddles of God are more satisfying than the solutions of man. -G.K. Chesterton)
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To: Mr_Peter

you think it’s funny...I think I need a witness protection program ;)


53 posted on 08/18/2013 4:36:10 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart
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To: jsanders2001

And that portends the question...

“Why are they on the web Freeping while I am sitting here without a sandwich?”

;)


54 posted on 08/18/2013 4:39:26 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart
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To: Jemian

I have also been married 37 yrs.
I buy all my hubs clothes. I know his tastes, favorite colors, sizes down to a t.
I do this to save $$$. I will go to Marshalls, sales racks ect. Since he hates to shop, he just walks in to a store and has the salesperson put together the outfit in question. It ends up costing a lot more .
He appreciates it.


55 posted on 08/18/2013 4:50:40 AM PDT by ronniesgal (First obama, now Weiner....Bill Clinton is starting to look like a good guy.)
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To: Vendome
Being the second son, and not mother's favorite, my older sib got the best of fashions from Goldsmith's in Memphis, and I was dressed from the sales racks.

I looked good as can be in 1966 in my pink corduroy bell-bottom-pants with my coral turtleneck! Add some white bobby socks and some saddle oxfords and I was the envy of the po white trash in the South.

It got worse in the 70’s with a plaid green leisure suit, polyester!

I need therapy.

And forget hand me downs. He was full grown by 8th grade, and I, a midget.

I still cringe when I see back to school clothing sales.

56 posted on 08/18/2013 4:51:11 AM PDT by urbanpovertylawcenter (where the law and poverty collide in an urban setting and sparks fly)
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To: Norm Lenhart

> And that portends the question...

“Why are they on the web Freeping while I am sitting here without a sandwich?”

;)

LOL...you so ound like a buddy if mine that lives in PA...lol


57 posted on 08/18/2013 4:51:25 AM PDT by jsanders2001
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To: lee martell
My husband hates shopping for clothes - so I do it for him. But then he's lost so much size (weight and inches) in the last few years that I had to break down about a year ago and get him sized for dress shirts. (He was unhappy about the man with the measuring tape, even if I was standing with him.)

Once I knew his new size in shirts - we're good to go.

He wants to look upstanding (whether business attire or business casual) and it does wonders for him to do so. When he walks into the office in his better attire, he gets noticed - and that is a good thing.

And I like him looking good.

58 posted on 08/18/2013 4:52:22 AM PDT by Maigrey (Life, for a liberal, is one never-ending game of Calvinball. - giotto)
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I’m a jeans and T-shirt guy. Wife has been trying to modify my wardrobe for over 20 years. A couple of her first attempts are still hanging, unworn, in the closet as a reminder that she can buy it, but that won’t make me wear it...


59 posted on 08/18/2013 4:54:10 AM PDT by trebb (Where in the the hell has my country gone?)
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To: lee martell
I've gotten used to people confusing me with someone wearing a Bus Driver uniform. That is how bland and consistently nondescript I look most the time. Once I know things fit well and match, my mind is no longer on clothing per se.
IOW, you aren’t interested in being attractive in the eyes of any particular woman. When you’re buying a birthday gift for a nephew, it would never occur to you to select clothing for him - you are quite sure, correctly almost certainly, that he would prefer a video game or roller skates or some other toy or tool. OTOH a niece would be very pleased to be taken to the mall and be allowed to select an item of clothing as a present, which is the very last thing you would expect a boy to enjoy.

If you have a wife or girlfriend, your attitude towards your appearance changes - shopping for clothes doesn’t suddenly become fun, but you do have someone whose opinion of how you should dress matters to you. You don’t actually spend a lot of time in front of a mirror, so it doesn’t matter so much to you what you look like. But since your wife does care about your appearance, and does after all see you from the outside whereas you do not, it is only sensible to defer entirely to your wife’s preference in clothing for you. What is your motive to argue over something you don’t care about?

She grew up caring about clothes, and you grew up not caring about clothes. End of story.


60 posted on 08/18/2013 4:56:51 AM PDT by conservatism_IS_compassion (“Liberalism” is a conspiracy against the public by wire-service journalism.)
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