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Why Some Stay in a Bad Relationship?
Crosswalk News ^ | May 5th, 2005

Posted on 05/05/2005 10:48:08 AM PDT by missyme

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1 posted on 05/05/2005 10:48:09 AM PDT by missyme
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Why Some Stay in a Bad Relationship?

Ask Theresa.

2 posted on 05/05/2005 10:48:55 AM PDT by Always Right
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To: Always Right

That's Easy MOOLA!!!


3 posted on 05/05/2005 10:51:36 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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I suffered for years from unrequited narcissism.


4 posted on 05/05/2005 10:56:36 AM PDT by Tijeras_Slim (Holding out for a Slim-centric Universe.)
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Shoot, I've found it to be much easier to be single than to be in a bad relationship.

I won't claim to like being single, however, I have enough problems without dealing with the garbage that goes with a bad relationship.


5 posted on 05/05/2005 10:57:08 AM PDT by stylin_geek (Liberalism: comparable to a chicken with its head cut off, but with more spastic motions)
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Actually I think the ideal (When there is no Kids involved) is to have a Part Time Marraige? is there such a thing????


6 posted on 05/05/2005 11:00:43 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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You get more tail in a bad relationship than no relationship.


7 posted on 05/05/2005 11:04:38 AM PDT by ctlpdad (There can be no triumph without loss, no victory without suffering and no freedom without sacrifice!)
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I guess you could say for some: (Security=Tail..LOL..)


8 posted on 05/05/2005 11:06:44 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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More troubling than their divergent interests, however, is their lack of shared values.

In practice, shared dislikes seem to be a good foundation for a relationship.

9 posted on 05/05/2005 11:06:53 AM PDT by Doctor Stochastic (Vegetabilisch = chaotisch is der Charakter der Modernen. - Friedrich Schlegel)
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Yes I don't know many men who liike to go Shoes Shopping or Mall Shopping or hang out at the Craft Store or watch Lifetime TV, Gab on the phone to there Mother's for hours,
Complain, Bitch about *just whatever* spend a day at the Spa, yet most men if you fix them awesome meals and give it up when they want and let them hang out with there buddies there pretty low maintenance..HAHA


10 posted on 05/05/2005 11:13:19 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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Men are like dogs. Simple. Feed them & give them a rub, and let them chase the proverbial ball and they are happy. No ulterior motives.

Women are like cats. No one knows what they hell they are thinking, and are damn near impossible to figure out.

It starts real early, too. This morning I asked my daughter if she wanted an egg or oatmeal and she ran away screeaming calling me a jerk, because what she really wanted was a pop tart. I wonder when they send girls to "woman school".


11 posted on 05/05/2005 11:17:36 AM PDT by ctlpdad (There can be no triumph without loss, no victory without suffering and no freedom without sacrifice!)
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Why be married part time? Might as well be friends who "hook up" once in a while.

If I get married again, it's going to be because my life is better with this person as a full partner in my life.

The converse should be true of her.

Of course, since my ideal is a Conservo-babe who believes in God, guns, beer and travel is rather rare, I may be single for a long time yet.


12 posted on 05/05/2005 11:19:52 AM PDT by stylin_geek (Liberalism: comparable to a chicken with its head cut off, but with more spastic motions)
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LOL...How true! Notice Women are the Cat lovers and Men Dog Lovers There is truth in that!

Your daughter just being a typical female! no harm no foul.LOL...


13 posted on 05/05/2005 11:22:25 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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Why Stay in a Bad Relationship?

Moving is hard?


14 posted on 05/05/2005 11:23:38 AM PDT by exile (Exile - Helen Thomas tried to lure me into her Gingerbread House.)
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When I say PT I mean I think relationships are better when 2 people are not stuck together 24/7 GOD did not say you need to be with your spouse every waking moment now did he?

I have been married to a man that has traveled most of my relationship with him it has been the ideal I always appreciated him more the 4 days a month he was home.


15 posted on 05/05/2005 11:25:26 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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Well, isn't there a line in the Bible that says "The two shall become as one."

All that aside, if you've been married a long time, and it has worked out well, then I applaud you.

Longevity in marriage is so rare anymore, that one should take notice when someone achieves it.


16 posted on 05/05/2005 11:29:54 AM PDT by stylin_geek (Liberalism: comparable to a chicken with its head cut off, but with more spastic motions)
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The two shall become as one."

That does not mean stuck up each other's ying yang???

Relationships can be good but bad at times or they can be BAd and good at times...

I have never seen a Perfect Relationship NEVER.


17 posted on 05/05/2005 11:39:15 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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haha......which one is yours?......*wink*.....just got home, see runbox and all is well......just read your post....hmmmmmmm......later


18 posted on 05/05/2005 11:43:48 AM PDT by NorCalRepub
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Mine is like a roadmap!


19 posted on 05/05/2005 11:44:46 AM PDT by missyme (Don't let the door hit ya in the ?)
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haha.......now that tells me nothing......LOL...guess it depends on where that roadmap is taking you......now doesn't it......later......see runbox and FReepmail...bye bye


20 posted on 05/05/2005 11:51:35 AM PDT by NorCalRepub
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