Whats the matter with me? Has anything changed?

[ConservativeMan55]

bttt

[Hatteras]

Get a cute little puppy and hit the boardwalk.

Chicks dig puppies.

[farmfriend]

Men aren't worth having until they are at least 30. They need seasoning.

[hellinahandcart]

Nah, I definitely am an old fart. I realized it earlier this year. It's okay.

You say it like it's a bad thing. ;D

[SaveTheChief]

Funny I found myself wondering the same thing about guys: I'm 30, single, never had children, had one boyfriend, conservative and I'm not ugly.

No you aren't. So what's yer problem? lol

[cyborg]

LOL... so you've embraced your old fartness? Okay!

[Gun142]

So I'm sitting here alone. Typing a shameless vanity. Trying to pass the time until tommorow. Tommorow I'll be 22.

I'm 33 and sitting here alone too. Isn't so bad, have had enough GF's in the past to know dating can be a real headache. Always telling you what to do and asking 'where did that gun come from?' or 'you can't buy more reloading stuff', etc.
Don't need that crap.

Just don't go out and get hammered tomorrow night and wake up Saturday morning embracing something you'll have to consider gnawing your arm off so you don't wake her up while you escape.

After you do escape, keep calling the neighbor to see if her car is gone so you can go home and get a shower.

Good luck and happy birthday!

[ConservativeMan55]

Thanks!

I'll try and have a happy birthday.

[ConservativeMan55]

bttt

[Prime Choice]

This question is more for your benefit than mine: what's so important about having a girlfriend right now? You're 22 years old. I think (especially in this day and age) it's perfectly okay for you to handle the world on your own and in your own way without having to answer to anyone.

So think about the answer to that question. Mull it over a bit.

Sure, I know what loneliness is like. I spent the better part of an entire decade alone and lonely. It sucks rocks. But lemme give you a bit of a clue here: if you're not happy with your own self as company, you're not giving off any indications to anyone else that they'd be happy with your company either.

The worst part about this loneliness is that it makes people (well, at least me) do Incredibly Impulsive and Stupid Things That Will Be Painfully Regretted Later. Do your best to avoid those. They will come back to haunt you.

Anyway, for practical recommendations: join a church or a club that reflects the things you value in life. You may not meet any girlies there, but you'll get to know other people like you...and chances are far better than average that one of 'em has a sister or a cousin. The point is this: when you invest time and effort in the outside world (and I mean really put yourself into it), the world has a way of paying unexpected and very cool dividends.

[ConservativeMan55]

Thats the frustration. I AM involved in the outside world. Its just that the outside world isn't involved with me. :)

[ConservativeMan55]

Thank you all for your advice. I'm trying to be positive.

I think. :()

[yooper]

Well, I don't know what to tell you to do, other than to be be yourself, be honest, be funny, and get the hell off of your computer and out into society.

This may sound harsh, but the fact that you actually posted this post indicates what your problem is. GET OFF OF YOUR ASS, SHUT DOWN YOUR COMPUTER, AND GO LIVE YOUR LIFE.

Somewhere out there is a girl who is going through the same thing you are. You WILL NOT meet her in your computer room.

Also, be sure to go to places where you will meet women worthy of your attention, such as church. Stay away from women in bars, casino's, etc.

One last note: you are 22 year's old, in other words, a pup. Be patient.

[Sunshine55]

If you can wait a couple of years I have a 16 yr old daughter that wants to double major in political science and journalism so she can kick Katie Couric's ass...

[Prime Choice]

Thats the frustration. I AM involved in the outside world. Its just that the outside world isn't involved with me. :)

Give it time. I know that sounds like a cop-out, but -- like the old song says -- you can't hurry love.

Another thing to keep in mind is how you act around the opposite sex. I knew one fellow who had me beat in every department. He was charming, witty, handsome by all standards...but he couldn't keep a relationship going to save his life. Turns out his major problem was that his idea of how to run a relationship was more like holding someone hostage.

I dunno, man. If you think you're doing everything right, maybe now is the time to start asking people who know you in meatspace what they think you're doing wrong. I don't know you, so I can't even begin to guess...

[Prime Choice]

Do these pants make my ass look fat?

No. Your ass makes your ass look fat.

*ducking and running like hell*

; )

[yooper]

"When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV."

You know, I initially laughed when I read this, but upon retrospect it's the soundest advice I've ever seen given on this board. Great album! I just can't seem to reconcile "Black Dog" with foreplay......

[yooper]

"Hey, I have a 30 year old conservative nephew I'd LOVE to fix you up with. "

Uh, I believe he is looking for a niece.