I have long asserted that someone who is TRULY a victim of someone else or circumstances has NO DESIRE to remain a victim, but to escape and never return to that status.
The Democrats keep scratching their heads as to why they’re losing votes from demographic groups they could once count on - younger voters and even racial minorities. There really isn’t much of a mystery about it - no mentally healthy individual wants to embrace abject victimhood as their identity, nor to associate with people who make demands of society based on their (entirely alleged and imagined) victim status.