The trick is to meet up at the pre agreed upon date location.....preferably well lit and a lot of people around.
If it goes sideways you just hit your car and jam out...that way there’s less chance of stalking as she doesn’t know where you live.
Think Craigslist transaction scenario.
The only upside to computer dating I see is that it gives James O’Keefe a lot of material to work with. Honeypot traps ALWAYS work!
When I was still in the infantry, I had talked to a girl online. This is before the days of digital cameras. She described herself as blonde, blue eyes, 5’11, 145lbs. After a while of talking, she agrees to a date. I jump in my fast car and head over. This girl walks out of the house and she didn’t lie. She was blonde and 5’11. Well, maybe she did fib a little. The 145 lbs was backwards. Maybe it was a typo. I was in my car still looking out at this, then I just dropped in gear and left about a 50’ patch of rubber lol. I don’t know what she was thinking. That I wouldn’t notice? Dazzle me with her winning smile? I didn’t stick around to find out.