Does language not reflect thought?
On internet forums? No. Not as a rule.
Most people speak without thinking and, when they do think, they overestimate their competence.
It's called the Dunning-Kruger Effect.
As to the question of civil war, do I think we should start fighting? Like you, I hate to see bloodshed.
But on the other hand, the country has been taken over by radical Lefties who are determined to destroy it.
I don't have the answer, but I do believe America as envisioned by our Founding Fathers (and in the Constitution) is worth fighting and dying for.
That said, at the moment, America is headed for destruction as we stand by and wring our hands.