I agree
I know a couple from here who moved to Duval county for the “lifestyle”
Swinging is so strange
Last thing I want is to watch my wife writhing and moaning shagged by ginormous endowed Adonis (s)
I don’t think u come back from that so easy lol
Hot wives get gang banged and their husbands get the fat ones by default
What makes swinging really tick though is it’s women driven by the wives who have a fancy for the other women or woman
That’s how the half dozen swingers I’ve known explain it all to me
It’s not my business but why get married if you covet variety so much or group action?
Stay single and get a caz girlfriend who digs it too
One ex swinger lady I know told me point blank “some fantasies are best left as fantasies”
I saw this go around three times in SoCal. The first was “Open Marriage” in the early ‘70s, the second were swingers in the 80s, and the third was “the Lifestyle” in the 2000s, which again was swinging.
I was the cynical reactionary who told my friends that they were nuts and this would end in disaster, which of course it did. I’d say “what about jealousy?” and I was informed that they had evolved beyond such petty booshie emotions. It’s amazing the nonsense that people can talk themselves into.
In my hierarchy of depravity swinging is definitely worse than cheating. It seems more animalistic. They can be hooking up simply according to whose keys they draw out of a bowl. At least cheaters might actually be driven by something resembling emotion. This is probably like rating the circles of hell when you get down to it. Dante meets the Tinder App.