Once upon a time, when men were men and girls were girls, the female with her lesser libido would keep men in check. But when men have only other men they are getting jiggy with, there is nothing to slow them down. It’s full bore ahead. They feed off one another and it becomes an unhealthy, decadent, nasty obsession. All they can think about as evidenced in this article. With women’s “liberation” in the 60s and 70s pretending we are the same as men with the same appetites, decadence definitely made it’s way into the hetero community, too, but homo men can take it to a whole new level...on steroids. And we are all supposed to pretend like all this is good and normal and healthy. It’s not healthy for the body, mind, and soul for any human. It’s not healthy for our culture.
I’ll tell you a funny story and you can take it for what it’s worth.
Back in the early 70’s I was invited to a gay/queer/f*g wedding. The bride, a lesbian, was a good friend of mine from high school, and she was marrying a gay guy from Australia for green card purposes. I felt sort of curious, but also somewhat intimidated, ‘cause, although they were repulsive, we all figured gays were just sort of Oscar Wilde witty and cool, so I called up a friend of mine, a woman so gorgeous she made Raquel Welsh look like that ugly frump from Laugh In, and I asked her to go with me and never leave my side! Three feet! That was it! No further than that distance away from me! She was real good about it.
So we go to the hotel somewhere in midtown Manhattan, and find the wedding and go to the party. It took all of 15 minutes to realize that these Oscar Wildes, were a bunch of inarticulate ignorant, jerks who knew squat what about nothing! Most of them had never heard of Oscar Wilde, or Aubrey Beardsley, or any of the famous homosexual artists
of culture. I knew more about them than they did, and I was a certified knuckle dragger! THEY WERE JERKS!
So here’s the weird event: It didn’t take long for the group to find out that there was a heterosexual couple at the party, which made them very uncomfortable. By now, my date and I were no longer intimidated by these weird losers, and were just laughing at them, and ourselves for expecting them to have been some kind of ultra cool. The two of us walked into a large bedroom and there on the bed must have been between a dozen or two groping guys in various degrees of grope. It looked like a tangle of snakes in a pit. We went to the window and looked out, shook out heads in a mix of wonder, and humor, and more wonder, and within a minute, two at the most, turned from the window and looked back into the room...AND THEY WERE ALL GONE! EVERY LAST ONE OF THEM! THE DOOR WAS CLOSED AND WE HAD THE ROOM COMPLETELY TO OURSELVES! WE WONDERED WHAT WAS GOING ON. WE STAYED THERE FOR OVER HALF AN HOUR AND THAT DOOR WAS NEVER OPENED, AND WE WERE NEVER DISTURBED!!! THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED. WE FIGURED THAT HETEROSEXUAL NORMAL SEXUALITY HAD DRIVEN OUT HOMOSEXUAL ABNORMALITY! (EVEN THOUGH THIS GORGEOUS WOMAN AND I WERE NOT ACTUALLY INVOLVED). WE LEFT THE ROOM OUT OF BOREDOM, AND THEY FILLED IT AGAIN.
WE LEFT THE PARTY. WEIRD, WEIRD NIGHT.
I STILL REMEMBER STEPHAN(STEF FAHN). HE ASKED ME IF I WAS GAY OR BI. I TOLD HIM I WAS BI. HE ASKED ME IF I WANTED TO DANCE. I LAUGHED AND TOLD HIM I DID, BUT NOT WITH HIM, THAT HE WAS REPULSIVE AND I WOULD NEVER THINK TO BE TOUCHED BY HIM. GOT HIM RIGHT IN THE EGO! HE WAS STUNNED, CRUSHED. LOL! IT WAS GREAT! HE WAS JUST SHATTERED! WHAT VANITY!
THAT’S WHAT HAPPENED. TAKE FROM IT WHAT YOU WILL.