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I Regret Being A Slut
Bridget Phetasy Substack ^ | 17 Aug 2022 | Bridget Phetasy

Posted on 08/17/2022 11:56:17 AM PDT by Rummyfan

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To: NorthMountain

Touché. However, computers were only invented by men because women were in control of their minds.


61 posted on 08/17/2022 1:19:41 PM PDT by Telepathic Intruder
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To: Bruce Campbells Chin

Meh!


62 posted on 08/17/2022 1:21:22 PM PDT by RedMonqey
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To: Rummyfan

This woman was part of Hugh Heffner’s empire. Heffner was America’s greatest pimp. She admits writing numerous columns extolling the joys of sluthood on his behalf. She makes no mention of regret for the young girls and women who read her column and were encouraged or persuaded to be sluts. She mentions her Catholic heritage. Perhaps she could examine the moral teachings behind the rules a bit more closely. Within them there is an ancient understanding of human nature and behavior. There is the recognition that beyond the orgasm, sex is associated complex emotional feelings and impressions that are far beyond the casual and transient.

Her essay does not reveal any self realization or actually why she now has come to realize that being a slut was demeaning and harmful. Yet she can again search her Catholic heritage and feel some regret or dare say guilt for not only her own debasement but for the harm she did in conjunction with Heffner to her readers.

Good luck to her daughter. It won’t be easy.


63 posted on 08/17/2022 1:23:31 PM PDT by allendale
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To: Telepathic Intruder

LSD is a helluva drug ...


64 posted on 08/17/2022 1:24:48 PM PDT by NorthMountain (... the right of the peopIe to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: Kartographer

That’s a very, very generous picture of her.

Like comparing centerfolds in the magazine and then in real life.

Wonders make-up, lighting and Photoshop can do for a gal.


65 posted on 08/17/2022 1:25:54 PM PDT by RedMonqey
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To: NorthMountain

I’ve never even seen rocking horse people, let alone them eating marshmallow pies. Or seen a girl with colitis go by. But if I did, I would quit the LSD right away.


66 posted on 08/17/2022 1:34:31 PM PDT by Telepathic Intruder
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To: V_TWIN

I have cats also
but I grow grapes and make my own wine :) yummy


67 posted on 08/17/2022 1:42:25 PM PDT by SisterK (the final variant is communism)
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To: SamAdams76

...a little bit of wine always gets left in the bag...
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It works well as a deglazer in many recipes. Or it can be used in a marinade or a salad dressing. Sauces. Soups. Stews. Put it in a small bottle in the fridge. It’ll keep ‘til you want it.


68 posted on 08/17/2022 1:51:05 PM PDT by reformedliberal (Make yourself less available.)
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To: Rummyfan
Yeah, as others have said, she blames Catholic teaching for somehow twisting her understanding of sex and loading her with "guilt" or something. If you're going to write a column calling yourself out for your own bad decisions, don't start it by blaming your church.

BTW, no mention of her father? Think maybe that had something to do with her promescuity?

69 posted on 08/17/2022 2:23:28 PM PDT by GOP_Party_Animal
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To: hellinahandcart; SamAdams76

I am, indeed.


70 posted on 08/17/2022 2:33:33 PM PDT by sauropod (Unbelief has nothing to say. Chance favors the prepared mind.)
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To: Rummyfan
A good article. A rather honest realization of what she did wrong and the lie that women told themselves and was pushed on them by the feminist movement.

I am reminded of the TV movie ″Shattered Innocence.″

It was about small-town Minnesota girl and high school cheer leader, who left home for Hollywood. But her dreams of stardom turned into an X-rated nightmare of porn movies and cocaine addiction, and two years later, she committed suicide.

Her real mother, Karen Applegate, tried to stay close to her daughter Colleen. One scene in the TV movie just before the March 21, 1984, death of her 20-year-old daughter, included Colleen telling her mother that she was an adult woman and could make any man she wanted fall in love with her. Her mother pointed out that making a man want to have sex with you is not the same as making a man want to love you, support you and father your children.

I think porn, the feminist movement, and a lot of public media has pushed the No Stings Attached concept of free love and One Night Stands. It is seductive, but as I get older I understand that to have really great sex requires an ability to become emotionally vulnerable to someone you care deeply about and that as great as sex is “it” is called making love because of the emotional connection that real love and really appropriate sex conveys.

71 posted on 08/17/2022 2:36:21 PM PDT by Robert357
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To: keving

A slut is not a woman who makes herself sexually available.

A slut is a woman who’s sexual availability is the only reason guys tolerate having her around.


72 posted on 08/17/2022 2:36:58 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor (A Leftist can't enjoy life unless they are controlling, hurting, or destroying others)
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To: GnuThere

Go teetotalers.


73 posted on 08/17/2022 3:13:42 PM PDT by Arcadian Empire (The Baric-Daszak-Fauci spike protein, by itself, is deadly.)
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To: Rummyfan

PFL


74 posted on 08/17/2022 3:24:15 PM PDT by KevinB (''...and to the Banana Republic for which it stands ...")
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To: Rummyfan

I’m glad she had her epiphany and everything, but this still smacks of the usual pattern: she’s a slut when she’s young, and then when she gets old enough to where men aren’t paying the same amount of attention to her, she suddenly realizes that wholesome chastity is the way to go.


75 posted on 08/17/2022 3:28:08 PM PDT by fr_freak ( )
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To: Rummyfan

The entire feminist movement, especially abortion and birth control pills, was completely about men wanting to get laid. It took away a woman’s right to say no. They, women, have been exploited ever since.

‘i’m empowered to kill my baby so the father does not have to take responsibility’ doesn’t really sound like empowerment.


76 posted on 08/17/2022 3:54:13 PM PDT by dirtymac ( Now Is The Time For All Good Men To ComeTo The Aid Of Their Country! NOWhx) )
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To: EEGator

Sperm banks. Sometimes they’re just a drive-thru!


77 posted on 08/17/2022 4:09:20 PM PDT by CodeToad (No Arm up! They have!)
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To: SauronOfMordor

“A slut is not a woman who makes herself sexually available. A slut is a woman who’s sexual availability is the only reason guys tolerate having her around.”

Nope. It’s the drive-thru sperm bank business she runs. The quality of the bank means nothing to the ‘slut’ label.


78 posted on 08/17/2022 4:11:37 PM PDT by CodeToad (No Arm up! They have!)
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To: Rummyfan

and after bangin 50-60 guys, girls have lost the ability to pairbond


79 posted on 08/17/2022 4:16:55 PM PDT by Chode (there is no fall back position, there's no rally point, there is no LZ... we're on our own. #FJB)
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To: allendale
She should also think of the young man that she could/should have married but that she implicitly kicked to the curb in her 20s to chase Chad and Tyrone.

The stats from the dating apps are shocking. 90% of women chase the top 10% of the men. So many lonely guys out there.

Of course, she can't see that because for her "men" means only the top 10% guys.

80 posted on 08/17/2022 4:18:47 PM PDT by Thilly Thailor
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