I watched the video interview of what happened to Mr. Ellis. He is not alone. A coworkers marriage fell apart when he discovered wife was having sex with his best fiend. The wife justified her behavior in every manner possible to avoid admitting she was wrong. It was a bitter divorce and my friend was understandably angry. Things got heated and the wife declared to authorities that he was molesting their 5 year old daughter. She essentially used the kid as a weapon and what a weapon it was. The rest of my story is the same as what happened to MR. Ellis. You are guilty, no arrest, no trial but punishment is dispensed for years.
Happens all the time:
How right you are. The courts are stacked against the men.
I finally divorced after 18 years, took care of my ex when she had thyroid cancer. Our son was born with DS and needed open heart surgery. I changed careers and worked from home to care for him while the ex was making her way up the promotion ladder at the hospital. She would not stop drinking. I finally had it when she had to have a minor operation to remove some lymph glands. She asked me to text people on her phone after the surgery and while doing that she had a few voice mails which I listened to and was going to return calls. Much to my surprise she had several very explicit voice mails from a man 20 years younger who was the boyfriend of my sons personal care attendant.
Here I was taking care of her, my disabled son, working, all the time she was sleeping around. Got a divorce and my lawyer was so good that I never had to take the stand and she settled which meant I got some of the equity from our house. She didn't want me to have a dime. She played the victim card, had an alarm system to put in the house that I moved out of for "Fear" of what I would do. It was the toughest thing I had to do but I took the high road and have been rewarded ever since. She continues to use my son as a pawn and will reap what she sows one day.