Your post is confusing, if the maid is living there, then it is her home address, thus not insurance fraud. If she isn’t living there, and just using the address for cheaper insurance, she is the one committing insurance fraud, not your mom. If she is living there and still working for your mom, terminate her employment and ask her to move out. There are plenty of maid services out there.
Excellent advice.
Talk to neighbors & mom to find out true situation.
Sorry if it is confusing, but I did post this:
‘One thing I’m thinking could help is that my cousin actually lives in the house, and has for that long as well, whereas she is “fake”.’
I think I confused people by writing that all her “things” are showing up. I should’ve SPECIFIED: MAIL.
No, she doesn’t send objects over or any such thing. It’s mail that comes - not just car insurance, but other things. I don’t know if she has this as her official DL address or not! And some mail is coming for her daughter (who used to live with her).
I am VERY WELL aware of the situation - as stated, it’s a long, long story. Known this woman for 35 years. Know where she came from. Know what my parents have done for her and what my mom pays her, etc. I know alot. Not all, obviously (like to peek at that DL), but a good deal. My ma only lives 10 min away.
I was trying to keep this short so people don’t snooze and ignore! Trust me, this could be an entire long article. My ma is stubbornly loyal and is under the spell of this woman - who isn’t the worst, but not as fantastic as my mom loves to believe. (My brother thinks she’s like ma’s “mammy” and ma is living her southern-belle fantasy! LOL)
Thank you for your input (as I do all here - I guess keeping it short helped) as it is, but she does not live there; never has.