“Being from a family of eight kids - most no more than a year or two apart - I know from personal experience how difficult it is for parents to give enough attention to each child, loving them or not.”
hmmm. It would have been better if you were never born?
That is a straw man argument and comes from your imagination not any position I took.
The difference between difficult and non-existence are not the issue, and massive surrogacy to please a selfish interest to “have lots of kids” and the natural life of natural parenting are not the same things. One is a life that is artificially manufactured to please a selfish interest and the other is life that just happens.