In the discussion of these doctrinal issues cut to the chase. These people are pro-sodomy. Don’t mince words about it. When discussing this issue translate their speech of “gay” in to what the Bible actually calls it. Use Biblical terms when discussing doctrine. i.e. Are you for the Sodomification of the church body? Do you support Sodomy as a natural and loving act or as an abomination to the Lord?
I guess you’ve never had a ham sandwich.