“the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.”
9 months in the womb floating in abiotic fluid (water)birth of flesh. It is not like Jews were ignorant of rebirth metaphor redeemed infant, become adult, marriage, a teacher, teacher of teachers and Nicodemus couldn’t covert or become the king. So what is his dilemma?
a new lease on life
second chance
fresh start
But then the point is to apply the message and move forward with a new attitude, perspective, focus, faith.