“Grandmothers end up becoming the main caregivers”
You have to wonder what is going to happen when Grandma isn’t there anymore to take up the slack.
Of course many, if not most, black grandmothers are fairly young women in their mid 30s. That’s an age when non black women are often still having children
Those black grandmothers are more than physically capable of the rigors of child rearing. They’re just not emotionally capable which is WHY they end of as grandmothers in their mid 30s