This is what I don’t get -— where do these dudes find the TIME to f-—k around? Law Practice? Political & Volunteer Boards? Two Kids? Wife? How in the hell did this dude have the TIME to put the moves on anyone but his wife?
Some women throw themselves at powerful men. He probably didn’t have to put in much effort.
Based on my experience when I was young and foolish, working full time, going to school full time and had three girlfriends at the same time (they all knew about each other) you do it by not sleeping anywhere near enough.
I'd get off work at midnight, get on the freeway for my 50 mile commute, get in the #2 lane and fall asleep. When I'd start to drift out of the lane the Botts Dots would wake me up, I'd check for traffic, recenter the car in the lane, and go back to sleep!
Even I wasn't dumb enough to fail to recognize that something had to give. Work was paying me, school wasn't, and by hard work I already had earned the job title the degree was supposed to enable me to get. So I dropped out.
Also made the mutually painful decisions on two of the girlfriends.
I'd like to think I'm smarter now. Never got into anything remotely like that situation since.
I must be smarter! Today, I'm unemployed, not in school, and have no girlfriends!...