Why are you still n California?
They don’t call the California DMV the “Department of Mental Vegetables” for nothing!
We’ve been plotting our departure for a number of years. Jobs and an 89yr old mom are keeping us captive for now. Retirement is right around the corner. Been traveling and looking for a place but haven’t settled on one. Some Californians end up polluting the places they move to- CO, OR, ID, NV and the pandemic is only accelerating that. My husband and I grew up in the bay area when people were still sane. It was wonderful, even when our kids were growing up, it was a leave it to beaver neighborhood. All the moms and dads had similar expectations for all the kids. The last 10-15 years it’s gone downhill in so many ways. It’s just headspinning and sad.