[17th Miss Regt]

Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’. Then it does not matter whose account it comes from.

[SunTzuWu]

What’s hers is hers. What’s his is ours.
If folks haven’t figured that out yet, they are headed for divorce.

[HangnJudge]

...Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’

I just assume I don’t own anything, it’s all hers; it’s more peaceful that way

[goodnesswins]

Yes...if you don’t treat all funds as “ours”...you start your marriage on a downhill ride...imho

[iontheball]

Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’. Then it does not matter whose account it comes from.
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This is the obvious, common sense answer in a marriage. Now, it gets more interesting in a non-married situation.

[pgkdan]

Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’. Then it does not matter whose account it comes from.

Yep...what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine too.

[Tallguy]

“Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’. Then it does not matter whose account it comes from.”

Tried that... with the first wife. Ground rules are different this time around.

[Pollster1]

Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’. Then it does not matter whose account it comes from.

That's what I was going to say. When we got married, everything that was mine became ours, and everything that was hers became ours.

[Oatka]

Another approach is to regard 100% of the money as ‘ours’. Then it does not matter whose account it comes from.

Wife and I have been running that way for 59 years. Works fine.