I recommend RC Sproul's treatment of it, and his sermon on the Maverick Molecule. For starters.
We attended a hyper Calvinist church for many many years. The Bible clearly DOESN’T teach it. We studied scripture carefully and read writings on both sides, read, studied and prayed. I recommend this website for starters. https://soteriology101.com/
Thats all Im saying here as no one gets convinced with internet arguments.