Perhaps not everyone is supposed to have kids...
No one gets everything they want. We all have to live with things we can’t have and want, as well as things we have we don’t want.
“After a time, you may find that ‘having’ is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as ‘wanting.’ It is not logical, but it is often true.”— Mr. Spock, Star Trek
Infertility is just another medical condition like any other. There’s a treatment for it. What is so special that people shouldn’t persue a treatment?
And, yes, I’m an IVF mother.
Choosing to not have kids until you are thirty or so is choosing not to have kids much of the time.
Not rocket science. More like intellectually grasping how to make tea.
They generally made a choice and the consequences of each path in life have always been pretty clear.
No do do overs. Sometimes you get lucky and stumble into a fabulous career after your kids are independent. Sometimes you get pregnant at 40. But no guarantees.