Of course it’s all the men’s fault.
It’s China’s fault, only China also has a surplus of men (since generations aborted the daughters).
Just so long as you understand.
Seriously, I told my wife of 42 years that if I was 20 right now, marriage would look rather unappealing. One reason is fat chicks with tats don't turn me on. I'd have a hard time finding a woman to date, much less marry.
Seriously, if I was 20 something, I'd consider the option of finding an Asian wife who wanted to come to America. I have no interest in dominating a woman, but I do expect respect and loyalty.
Maybe men are tired of being saps.