Boy, you are not kidding!
Plug your name into MyLife.com and see all the info they can bring up (for a fee). The free info is hairy enough as it gave my town and phone number. Not too much of a stretch to get your street address out of the phone book and perhaps pay you a visit - or send a package.
I’m lucky that way, I’m pretty sure a former friend edited mine and put a whole bunch of crazy crap in it, which I have left perfectly alone for the sake of privacy :)