I have absolute sympathy for him and his situation. I could not and would not want to Imagine losing a young child. BUT I also could not
Imagine doing to the remaining children what suicide will do. People talk about the evil 5 years in but this act is just perpetuating that evil to an innocent generation ( his two younger children). I am with the poster who said it’s time to stop being so accepting of the false choice of suicide.
Speaking for myself, I neither condone the act nor judge him for it. I think it’s tragic, and I certainly see your point.