I call them blessings.
“I call them blessings.”
I agree. It comes down to your outlook. Maybe you had friends that had families that never made them work and maybe you had to get a job and work your butt off. Were they privileged not having to work or were you privileged to gain experiences they did not?
Someone once told me that life is filled with experiences, both good and bad, and how we react to these experiences shapes who we are.