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There were and are many married men (and women) who have girlfriends/boyfriends/whores they utilize on the side. Always have been, always will. That unfortunately, is a sad fact of life.

My sister’s first husband went overseas and he moved out the first weekend he was there and lived with a young local woman the entire time he was there. She had to go through hell to get any support from him as he was enjoying the time over there a bit too much to think of her and their son. He was using the military system to avoid payment of child support afterwards: Skip 2 months and pay on the 3rd month, skip another 2 months and pay on the 3rd month. I was in the military and was aghast he got away with it.

An underlying excuse used by most guys is that the wife back home was probably messing around.

I knew a drop-dead (without makeup!) woman whose husband brought home and STD and gave it to her while she was pregnant. It transmitted to the child during delivery. He tried to tell her she had gotten it. She knew better and he finally confessed. He then tried blaming his whoring around on the probability that she was messing around.

Women mess around too, though. My beloved told me of actually running into a guy and gal from his shop who were seeing each other despite both being married. He was pissed that he thought he was put in the position of having to tell the husband of the gal about the affair. Turns out someone else saw them and told the husband. The husband then told the wife of the married man. Outcome? Two divorces with children being affected.

It happens. Sadly. It happens.