The nice thing about living in New Jersey is that we don’t have any of these complicated choices...
You have no idea how lucky you are where your state makes so many decisions for you. You now have the monetary resources you would have used for self defense available for paying socialist inspired taxes where you get to help out the poor that do not want to work, in particular those from other countries taking advantage of open borders.
You also have the comfort of knowing that if any of those poor undocumented people decide to share your home with you and relieve you of your burdensome possessions or miserable life that police protection is just a phone call away.