I AM repelled by the relationship. I have seen been in the home of two homosexual men who had adopted two boys, and one of the men was mentally, emotionally ill - hysteria, suicide attempts, a terrible environment for children - how did he and his partner ever adopt? Answer: lots and lots of money.
OTOH, I have known two lesbians who adopted and seemed to be doing a reasonably good job, other than not giving their children a mother and a father. My husband has cousins raised by his lesbian aunt and they turned out okay, better than his sister, for instance, who was raised by a mother and father.
In the California case we know none of the particulars except that the men were homosexual and the son stabbed them. He might have been mentally ill, or on drugs; he might have been abused; he might have wanted to make it look like an outsider did it and inherit, any combination of the above.
We don’t know. He was old enough to walk away and make his own life. He chose otherwise.
OTOH, I have known two lesbians who adopted and seemed to be doing a reasonably good job, other than not giving their children a mother and a father.
The sickness here is off the charts. Two deviants vs a real mother and father are in no way manner shape or form comprable. Dragging children into their demented world in order to somehow normalize themselves is massively destructive and selfish.